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ZM's avatar

This, and your other thread on Twitter, are really interesting! Do you think this is leading to something? Is this "immunization" behavior heading towards a more resilient "culture"? Or do the social rules become stricter and stricter at a more and more rapid pace?

(For the record, I found myself editing for tone multiple times before posting to try to not be one of those soyface memes)

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Great post, I'm totally in agreement with you, and we seem to have come upon very similar ideas. With respect to the nerds being the bullies, the best rendition of that I've seen is 21 Jump Street: Channing Tatum goes back to high school and everything is backwards, the cool kids sing reduce reuse recycle.

When I think about this phenomenon I think a lot on comment sections. Most of the Internet is hypercometitive environments for commentary to evolve, and 99+% of users just consume it. I think what happens to someone who consumes this enough, and especially who grows up consuming it, is their superego takes the form of a comment section. The Freudian superego being the best explanation pointing to the part of your brain that figures out what "society says" about things. A comment section super ego, like you describe, is characterized by a ton of extremely specific validations, for example constraining yourself to not give the demeanor of the dog walker guy.

I outlined my thoughts on this topic here: https://pendertif.com/who-am-i-a-sketch/

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